My Teacher Touched Me In A Sexual Way ?

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One of the teachers in the sixth form at my boarding school has been acting like a major pervert lately. Last week I was in the sixth form centre by myself and he had walked in and we had started talking. He asked me was something wrong and I told him that my boyfriend and I had got into a fight. He told me that when ever I wanted to talk, I could come to him and he’ll be there. Everything was going well, until he put his hands on my shoulders and started rubbing them. He whispered in my ear about how “tense I felt” and how he could make me “relax”, then I felt his hands travel from my shoulders down my back and up my skirt. I started to cry and asked him to stop, but he kept telling me that this was “right” and “I’ll get use to it”. He heard someone coming and quickly left. The next day after class, he had asked me if I could stay behind because he wanted to discuss something with me. I was nervous at first, but then he told me he wanted to apologize for what had happened yesterday. He told me that the whole thing was just a “misunderstanding” and he was just worried about me and wanted to make sure I was okay and then he asked me if I could keep this “our little secret”. After that I talked to other girls who are in the lower sixth form (grade 11 ) and they told me they’ve been touched by him as well. They told me that I’m not the only one that he touches. They said that he’s made them sit on his lap, kiss him, tried to unhook their bras etc.. My roommate and also one of my best mates Emma told me that he had touched her on her private parts. Just like he had did to me and the others after he touched her he wanted to talk to her. He told her that she was “overreacting”. I feel really confused about this whole thing. What if myself and the other girls are really misunderstanding his actions ? What if were making a big deal out of nothing ? I don’t know what I should do, he’s one of those typical young (just turned 25 ) really hot teachers who me and others thought we could trust and connect with since he’s closer to our age than most other teachers. I feel like this is my fault.

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Answer by prettypear
Contact the authorities! Why are you here?!?! It’s not your fault he’s a damn pervert!

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  1. Ceri P says:
    February 10, 2012 at 2:42 pm

    Firs of all, it is NOT your fault (or the fault of any of the other girls). He is your teacher, he is in a possition of responsibility towards you and has broken the law, and the trust you, other students, staff and parents have in him. He knows he is wrong – thats why he asked to keep it a secret.
    It may feel difficult, but you do need to report this to a member of staff you trust (or to one of your parents). Try to convince some of the other girls to go with you (strenght in numbers). He is trying to scare you/pressure you into felling you have no control over the situation, but you do. Speak to another teacher, and they will help you. He should not be in the position of trust that he is in, and you and the other girls have the power to stop him doing this anymore.
    Good luck and be strong.

  2. cricket says:
    February 10, 2012 at 2:53 pm

    It is not your fault. A teacher (no matter what the age) has a moral and professional Standard of conduct that should be abided and your teacher clearly crossed the line. If I were you I’d first see if you can get some of these other students to come forward with you to report this (there is more power in numbers). If no one else commits to reporting it then you must do it yourself. Go to the principal first (have at least one other witness with you), then the school board second. Having the courage to prevent this from happening to more students is an admirable thing.

  3. Abby Underwood says:
    February 10, 2012 at 3:27 pm

    first off, this is NOT your fault at all. you and your friends need to contact a higher staff member immediately. i’m so sorry that this happened to you, and good luck.

  4. good lookin says:
    February 10, 2012 at 3:59 pm

    If you like it do it with him stop being a pussy. but think twice if u want it from him about the consequences. if you dont want it…be strong girl..forget about it. its not a misunderstanding if he touched many other girls he just wants sex uz hes probably a loser. dont be overemotional about it. i woulda let him go after he apologized but after i saw that he touched many other girls, id say report him cuz he didnt learn his lesson after the first time. but then again.hed probably loose everything. but sorry to say bu id report him if hes still gonna touch toher girls.