Teacher Is Acting Like A Pervert ?
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Last week I was in the sixth form centre by myself and he had walked in and we had started talking. He asked me was something wrong and I told him that my boyfriend and I had got into a fight. He told me that when ever I wanted to talk, I could come to him and he’ll be there. Everything was going well, until he put his hands on my shoulders and started rubbing them. He whispered in my ear about how “tense I felt” and how he could make me “relax”, then I felt his hands travel from my shoulders down my back and up my skirt. I started to cry and asked him to stop, but he kept telling me that this was “right” and “I’ll get use to it”. He heard someone coming and quickly left. The next day after class, he had asked me if I could stay behind because he wanted to discuss something with me. I was nervous at first, but then he told me he wanted to apologize for what had happened yesterday. He told me that the whole thing was just a “misunderstanding” and he was just worried about me and wanted to make sure I was okay and then he asked me if I could keep this “our little secret”. After that I talked to other girls who are in the lower sixth form (grade 11 ) and they told me they’ve been touched by him as well. They told me that I’m not the only one that he touches. They said that he’s made them sit on his lap, kiss him, tried to unhook their bras etc.. My roommate and also one of my best mates Emma told me that he had touched her on her private parts. Just like he had did to me and the others after he touched her he wanted to talk to her. He told her that she was “overreacting”.After class one day he asked my mate Katie if she would mind staying after class and helping him with something. She told me that after she finished helping him he had asked for a hug,but she didn’t want to give him one, but he started coming towards her and hugged her anyway.After a few seconds he started lifting the back of shirt up and started to unhook her bra. She pushed him away and he said that’s what she gets for being a “good girl”. She said since that day she’s been having nightmares.. All the girls have just gotten use to it.He’s the teacher and adult and were the teenagers and the students. My mates and I want to tell someone but were scared I feel really confused about this whole thing. What if myself and the other girls are really misunderstanding his actions ? What if were making a big deal out of nothing ? I don’t know what I should do, he’s one of those typical young (just turned 25 ) really hot teachers who me and others thought we could trust and connect with since he’s closer to our age than most other teachers. ( Most of us are 16 and 17 ). I want to tell my mum and dad, but I’m scared what their reaction is going to be. Me and the other girls have always been able to trust him, we must have done something to turn him on. Yesterday all of us who have been touched by him, decided that we would tell our mum and dad’s first, I tried to write my parents a letter explaining to them what he’s done to me and the other girls, but I got scared. So now I think talking to them in person would be the best thing to do, but I’m not sure how or when to do it.
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Answer by Nick Mitchell
theres nothing really to misunderstand in those actions, you got to tell someone
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You absolutely aren’t reacting. Tell your parents and schedule a meeting with the school. Advise your friends that have been molested by him to do the same. He should be fired immediately and have his teaching license suspended. What he is doing is illegal. Don’t feel bad for him. He is well aware of what he is doing and knows the consequences. Also, you want to stop him from hurting anybody else, right?
Your teacher is sick. You need to consult him about his actions and ask him why he does these sick things. Tell him to stop doing it to you and your friends, and if he doesn’t stop, you can already legally sue him for sexual harassment. There’s no way that you and your friends are “misunderstanding” his intentions, he’s trying to take advantage of you. You also NEED to tell your parents. Unless you want to spend the rest of your school year uncomfortable and nervous, you need to do these things.
Please each and every one of you write to your parents and tell them exactly what he did to you and to them. He has to be stopped. He is a Pedophile, that is a man who likes children and 16 and 17 year olds are by law children. You need hopefully with more of your friends who have experienced this to talk to the head of your school. He is going to cause mental and emotional damage to many girls in the future and you and your friends can stop him and protect others. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. You have to stop him. I am sorry for what you and the other girls have gone through. When you tell and he gets his punishment you all will feel empowered. It will be a very good feeling and you will be proud of yourselves. Nobodies parents would want this to happen to their child and they will help you.