I’m Being Molested At School ?
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One of the teachers in the sixth form at my boarding school has been acting really inappropriate lately. Last week I was in the sixth form centre by myself and he had walked in and we had started talking. He asked me was something wrong and I told him that my boyfriend and I had got into a fight. He told me that when ever I wanted to talk, I could come to him and he’ll be there. Everything was going well, until he put his hands on my shoulders and started rubbing them. He whispered in my ear about how “tense I felt” and how he could make me “relax”, then I felt his hands travel from my shoulders down my back and up my skirt. I started to cry and asked him to stop, but he kept telling me that this was “right” and “I’ll get use to it”. He heard someone coming and quickly left. The next day after class, he had asked me if I could stay behind because he wanted to discuss something with me. I was nervous at first, but then he told me he wanted to apologize for what had happened yesterday. He told me that the whole thing was just a “misunderstanding” and he was just worried about me and wanted to make sure I was okay and then he asked me if I could keep this “our little secret”. After that I talked to other girls who are in the lower sixth form (grade 11 ) and they told me they’ve been touched by him as well. They told me that I’m not the only one that he touches. They said that he’s made them sit on his lap, kiss him, tried to unhook their bras etc.. My roommate and also one of my best mates Emma told me that he had touched her on her private parts. Just like he had did to me and the others after he touched her he wanted to talk to her. He told her that she was “overreacting”.After class one day he asked my mate Katie if she would mind staying after class and helping him with something. She told me that after she finished helping him he had asked for a hug,but she didn’t want to give him one, but he started coming towards her and hugged her anyway.After a few seconds he started lifting the back of shirt up and started to unhook her bra. She pushed him away and he said that’s what she gets for being a “good girl”. She said since that day she’s been having nightmares.. All the girls have just gotten use to it.He’s the teacher and adult and were the teenagers and the students. My mates and I want to tell someone but were scared I feel really confused about this whole thing. What if myself and the other girls are really misunderstanding his actions ? What if were making a big deal out of nothing ? I don’t know what I should do, he’s one of those typical young (just turned 25 ) really hot teachers who me and others thought we could trust and connect with since he’s closer to our age than most other teachers. ( Most of us are 16 and 17 ). I want to tell my mum and dad, but I’m scared what their reaction is going to be. Me and the other girls have always been able to trust him, we must have done something to turn him on.
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Answer by Hannah Phillips
You should tell someone. No one is misunderstanding anything if a teacher tries to unhook your bra. It’s illegal and wrong. Tell someone and he’ll get what he deserves. It’s best for you and anyone who will have him as a teacher later on if he may do worse things to them. Good luck 
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you should really tell someone. its illegal what hes doing. he could mess up most of your lives emotionally as well. tell the principal. you have witnesses take your friends with you.
I doubt you’ve done anything to turn him on. He is the adult in the situation and he should not do this to any of you!! Tell your parents, tell another teacher, tell a counselor, tell your principle, tell EVERYONE!! There is nothing he can do to you. If he has really touched that many of you then he will def. lose his teaching license and most likely become a sex offender…. Please do something!!
There’s nothing legal about unconsented sexual contact as you described. And if all those other girls said the same thing happened to them and they are serious, go to the principle or school conselor and report him. He should be fired and put in jail
Honey, don’t be scared.
Tell your mother. I’m sorry but this teacher needs to be fired and arrested for molesting young teenage girls. Tell an adult you really trust. Tell the principal. Or sue. Put a video camera hidden in the classroom. Whenever he touches you, you WILL have evidence. Be careful though. You need to have proof or else things might get worse.
This is sexual abuse. You need to contact the principal/headmaster/dean or whoever’s in charge and get him fired. If this doesn’t work then contact the police.
you have to tell someone. be brave and take a stand. you could save someones life!! and it may be yours you are saving! if he has done this, this many times he wont think twice about doing it again..and it may lead to rape..or worse down the road..tell someone! you wont reget it! but you very well could regret keeping this a “little secret”..
goodluck:) stay strong:) be brave:)
Put your foot down, don’t let him intimidate you, these men try taking control of you by intimidation.
If he touches you again stand up for yourself because NOBODY is gonna tell him to STOP but you.
Unless you wanna tell someone to do it for you.
Wow.
If I were in this situation, I would tell my parents.
Sense you know that he has done this to other girls, it makes more sense to tell an adult and get him fired. It doesn’t matter if you are all ‘use’ to it. Your a minor still, and he is an adult even if he is ”closer” to your age. He needs to be put in his place, and probalby register as a sex offender. No teacher should do that.
What has this world come to? So yes. Diffenatly tell your mom and dad, they can take it up from there, and do what THEY think is best. And you have to go along with it, and when your 18 you can move out and chose your own rules. I woiuld think that your parents would get together with some of the other girl’s parents who have been through this same situation and come up with some kind of way to stop it, or get the teacher in trouble.
Best luck to you and your friends. (:
TELL SOMEONE!!!!! THIS NEEDS TO STOP!!!!! THAT MAN IS SICK AND IF HE ISN’T STOPPED HE WILL HAVE MORE VICTIMS!
You really need to report this to some adult in you boarding school and report this child molester. This may cause more harm to girls in your school and will end up to greater situations if you yourself doesn’t take action.Your a victim in this case and need to report this man, talk to your parents and they’ll know what to do or better,take matters into your own hands and go to the principal and gather up your friends to back you up on the story.!
HOLY !@#@#! tell someone! unless you damn like being molested at school tell the damned police or your mom. you know that what he is doing is illegal right? tell your friends to tell the headmaster/whatever-the-crap-he/she-is-called that they are being molested. molesting is NEVER right. that guy is a F*****g CREEPO
ps. kick his family jewels in and maybe he will stop.
First of all you are NOT overreacting what he did was against the law and he is abusing the trust and power he has as a teacher. I can only advise you to tell you parents immediately as one of the girls he has mistreated needs to be brave and step up for all of you. This is not your fault also make sure to tell this is not the first time he has done this. Do not believe his apology as if he was really sorry he would have not abused other girls as well.
Yeah, you need to tell someone! Or else the bastard will keep doing it! You need to help end this crap!
YOU STUPID HOOKER! ! !